Hello, my friends. Jacob's here. One more time. I'm glad that you're here. I'm thankful that you have pressed the play button, that you have hit the like, and you have subscribed, and you are making sure that you have checked the bell for notifications, because I have a lot of things to tell you today. 

We have a lot of interesting things to talk about. I know that these things keep you up all night, so I figure I got to tell you these things. I'll tell you what'll keep you up all night. I make jokes. You ever get bit by a spider in the middle of the night? Yeah. That'll keep you up all night, according to this. That's right. I'm sorry. This is, like, supposed to be a family show. I always do keep it family friendly. But I got to tell you, if you get bit by this spider I don't know when Dan Dan and I, when we were printing up today's news, because that's what I do. I just print up stuff, and then I just kind of share with you everything that I've learned about it. 

But when we were printing it up, it was on the screen, and it said, spider with erection inducing bite. Shuts down the supermarket. That's what it says. That's right. And I said, you're lucky I didn't get bit by that spider. 

Dan Dan. I did. I said that. I said that because we have a lot of children. We have a lot of children. Dan. Dan's. Very pretty too. So look at what happens. I talk about spiders that give you erections, and next thing you know, I'm thinking, she needs to get home from getting her nails done. That's what I'm thinking. 

Hi, Jest. It's good to have a healthy marriage. I have a healthy marriage. I hope you do, too. I hope you work at your marriage. I work at mine. We're not perfect. Neither of us are perfect, but we do our best. We just try harder every time. So important. A great lesson I learned long time ago about my wife is that I wanted to love her like I had, like, the love for my children. Same thing. Same thing. And once we caught that on I'll tell you, tell you what, better now I'm 52 years old than it's ever been. We're going on, like, many years of marriage or anniversaries. 

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You know that this house, the house that I live in right now, this was Dan Dan's dream house when she was growing up. And we got it when we got this house, which, by the way, this pool was all disgusting. This was all overgrown over in here. We got this house. It was a foreclosure. There's no way we could have afforded this house. It was just one of those things where I just knew and I pray. We had a house down the street, which was like a third of the size. When you have a relationship that's built on love and trust and you kind of put God first, a lot of the good things come out of it. 

So why am I talking to you from the backyard? Why am I sharing a video about spiders giving people erections? Well, that's not going to solve your relationship, I tell you that. No, but what will is putting your spouse first, putting the people that you're supposed to love first. And I got to tell you something. I'm very encouraged. This is the fig tree. I don't know if you remember correctly, but last year fig tree, it didn't come back, and all of the branches were dead. And if you look at the branches, it's interesting. A fig tree branch. It's like bone white, like almost bones. But if you remember correctly, I broke all of the sticks. 

Now, last year, this fig tree produced one fruit, and I was upset, and then I was worried, and I thought, oh, no, it's not going to come back. I'm like, Lord, what are we going to do? So I broke all of the branches, and I said, I gave up on it. Then out of the blue, this thing just started coming to life. And now there is literally fruit. I don't know if you can see this. I mean, this is immature fruit. That's the only thing I know. A lot of people are bragging about their fig trees and how they're like, oh, we have so much fruit on it. Oh, and we're making Fig Newtons out. Everybody's telling me. And I'm jealous. It's true, I'm very jealous. But it's like this year there's fruit, literally on every branch. 

And ironically, this is the danielle and I, we got married 16 years ago. We just had our anniversary. 16 years. Do you know Jacob and Rachel, they had Joseph after 16 years of marriage. Joseph's a picture of Christ. Listen, I look at my life, I'm standing in a place that I could have never dreamed of, I could have never afforded. When I was a child, I had to sneak into I snuck into people's pools to swim. Grew up at the Boys Club before it was the Girls Club, where they had all sorts of weird things going on. Very different time. But today the Lord's blessed me with so much. And I think part of the reason is, is because I was faithful in my marriage. And I want you to be that as well. I want you to know the joy of being married and what a good relationship it's time not to give up. 

So I want to share this video that I did, my goodness, how many years ago? Probably what, The lottery and lucked out and got to raise my children because I couldn't imagine I didn't have a father in my life. So important today. I get so many emails from so many of you that are having troubles in their relationships. And I even have friends of mine and family members and people close to me that are struggling and they want so badly to blame the other it's the other person's fault.

See now let me tell you how a marriage works, right? You want to know how to make a marriage made in heaven. It's very simple. First of all, you got to stop seeing the worst in the person that you're with. There's a great passage in scripture judge not lest you shall be judged. So how you judge a relationship to be is exactly what you will get if you say that he will never change or she will never change. They will never change.

You see you got to understand if you've been in this channel long enough you understand that hopefully you understand that you are more and that you have power over your life and you have power over your surroundings. That all things were given to the Son for the sun because all things exist in Christ, right? Everything we move, we breathe and we have our existence in God and everything was made for us. The scriptures say that man was given dominion. The problem is everyone has been tricked into exercising dominion when it comes to misery when it comes to pain when it comes to fear when it comes to shame when it comes to hate when it comes to anger when it comes to bias. And love is lost and compassion is lost and forgiveness is lost and patience is lost. And being strong for your mate if they're having a hard time, is lost.

So here are a couple of tips, okay? First off, stop thinking the worst. Second of all, remember the past doesn't exist. The devil's spell backwards is lived. Just because something happened a certain way in the past doesn't mean that it has to happen that way again. We are the masters of our ship. We are in charge here. We are bigger than our thoughts. When somebody does something that sets us off and we get angry and this negative thought pops into our head saying oh well tell them about that and don't let them get away with this. That thought, we don't even know where that comes from. Some people will say that is programming. Freud would say that it was the ID, right? It in Latin, that voice in your head. Some will say it is the devil, the prince and the power of the air waves. We've been manipulated, we've been controlled. We've been brainwashed to be miserable. And that's why so many are hurting today. You've believed your life is less than it can be. You've believed that you can't get ahead. You've believed that you can never make it work with this person or that person. And then you go and you make the same mistake with others because you have not loved.

That's what it boils down to. Believe me when I say that I have had hard times in my relationship. I have made mistakes in my relationship. I have been in hell in my relationship, but I turned it around. And so can all of you. When you understand that you are in control of your life and your relationship and that whatever you say, the power of life and death is in your tongue. Whatever you say about your spouse, about your so called loved one, you want to paint them out to be a monster. You want to tell everybody how terrible they are. And then when they act that way, you say, you see? I told you. Never once thinking that maybe you judged them the wrong way or you judged her the wrong way and you got exactly what you believed.

Because with faith, all things are possible. I am coming on here every week, people, and now on Sundays, I'm trying to speak a little more plainly to you because I want you to take it for those who are ready, take it to the next step. It's time to enter that kingdom. It's time to enter that rest, that light that I've been talking about, that Christ in you, the hope of glory. If you're saying, teach me the truth no matter what the cost, and you're looking for more, and you're not listening to the lies of religion, and you're seeking God in all things, you're going to understand that right now is the day when you are entering into the light and in a way that has never been available to any of us before. You can turn your relationship around that's easy. But you can also change the world if you have faith the size of a mustard seed.

No. That's what a lot of people will say. It's about the size of your faith. No. As a mustard seed. If you have faith as a mustard seed, because a mustard seed knows it's going to be a mustard tree. If you understand that your spouse can turn it around, they're going to turn it around, and you're going to help them to do that. Because you understand that your spouse is also your garden that you were given. So how are you sowing how are you sowing into the one that you say that you love? Are you telling them? Are you telling them who you want them to be? You are the most caring. I see what you've done. I see that you're tired, that you worked hard today. I understand that you're a little short with me right now. What can I do to make things better for you? When I stopped being selfish in my relationship, and I was because it takes two to tangle, baby. Danielle and I were both wrong in our problems. But when one person is strong enough to take the load off of the other, they say, as Christ loved the church, husbands love your wives. As Christ, to sacrifice your life for the one that you say you love. And what does sacrificing your life mean? Does it mean that you get to be a doormat and you get to be abused? I'm not talking about staying in abuse.

But let me tell you something. If you're funneling out verbal abuse and you're getting it back in return, that is called reaping what you have sown you could turn it around by changing the tomb. You got to understand that the person you love just like you. We've been manipulated. We've been brainwashed. We've been conditioned to be miserable and to blame and to shame. It's time we change our words. It's time we change our words. It's time that we have love for our spouse like we have for our children. If your spouse does something wrong, do you forgive them or do you hold onto it? You hurt my feelings, so now I'm going to hurt yours. Well, you made me feel really bad. So you don't forget you. I'm not going to get you those roses. Like I said, if you want your relationship to be like heaven, then you have to act like an angel. But if you want it to be hell, just continue on like the devil that you've been programmed to be. But you are more.

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