Male Stripper REVEALS What He Experienced in Diddys House

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My very first encounter, when I showed up for what I thought was a party. Ms. Rentura greeted me at the door in a robe, which you can tell she was the minute she opened the door. It was an obvious scenario that this was gonna be different than a party. And she said, look, you’re gonna sit here. I’m gonna be here. It was two couches adjacent from each other, and we’re gonna put baby oil on our body and create a environment, and at some point, my husband’s gonna come out to watch. From my peripheral, I could see him walk in the room.

But the odd thing about it was he came in a room pretty much nude, but he had his face covered with, I believe it’s called a hijab or burqa. So I really had no idea who he was. I am compelled to be here, and I have to give the facts of what I was involved in and what I saw. I didn’t want to have any bias or anything associated with my testimony that seemed like I was in favor of evil party. Hey, everyone. Welcome to another sit down with Michael Francis. Hope everybody is doing well. All is very good, very blessed on this end.

As always, my friends, I give all the praise, honor, glory, and. And thanksgiving to our God for that. You know, one of the things that seemed to be capturing the interest of so many people, not only in this country, but around the world, is this whole Diddy trial. Now, because it’s a federal trial, there’s no cameras in the courtroom, so we can’t observe what’s going on. And we have to go by what we read in the media, whether it be on social media, the newspapers, online, or whatever we get our news from. That’s what we’re going by.

I’ve done a couple of interviews about this. People are asking me if the RICO act really applies to this, you know, to the whole Diddy case. I don’t know. I’m having a little trouble with that because he’s the single defendant in this case. Normally, a RICO indictment has a lot of defendants. I know I was, you know, the lead defendant in three racketeering cases indictments, and I always had many co defendants because it’s a criminal enterprise that they’re talking about and normally have more people that are carrying out the illegal, you know, the predicate acts of the.

Of the RICO conspiracy and the RICO itself. So in this case, my assumption is that there are many unindicted coconspirators that are now cooperating with the government and testifying against Diddy. That if they had not done that, they would be part of the RICO indictment because they would be co conspirators. But since none of them are being charged, many of them or some of them are getting on the stand and testifying. They have cooperating agreements with the government, and therefore they’re unindicted co conspirators. Even though they may not be called that. That’s in reality what they are.

Anybody that helped him carry out any kind of criminal activity would be part of the RICO conspiracy. So I hope you understand what I’m saying. But the case has really captured the attention of many people. I had the opportunity to interview a fellow by the name of Sheree Hayes, and I did it while I was in Las Vegas last week. I was there for a speaking engagement, a wonderful engagement. It was a Christian conference with my good friend Ryan Panetta, who I happen to care a lot about. He’s a strong business person, a strong Christian, and he runs this Kingdom conference every year.

And I participated. I was the last one to speak, or the second last one to speak was a great event. But while I was there, I had a Zoom interview with Sheree Hayes. Sheree Hayes was a stripper at one point in time, and he testified in the, in the Diddy trial. And people, I want to tell you something. I want to. I want to say this right up front. This is not content that I like to put out. This is not normal. I, I was uncomfortable during the interview. Now why was I uncomfortable? Because I’m speaking to all of you.

You’re watching this. And it’s not content that I really want to talk about. I don’t want to talk about sexual deviate activity. I don’t want to talk about stuff like that. I’ve never done it. You know that. It’s not what I do. But I also don’t want to shy away from it if it’s part of a, of a situation or a matter like the Diddy trial that you’re all interested in or so many of you are interested in. We don’t like the behavior, whether it’s RICO or not. Some of the information that’s coming out at this trial, we don’t like it.

I don’t like it. I think it’s disgusting. It’s despicable in a way. So when I’m reporting it to you, understand that it’s not content I’m comfortable with, and I hope I don’t have to do it further. I really mean that I’m not comfortable with it and I Don’t want anybody to be offended by it. But I’m out there just telling it like it is. And there’s some things that he said that we’re going to blip out. I don’t want to get into it like that. I’m being honest with you. My wife even said it. And I understand that many of you won’t want to hear it, but we blip those things out as best we could.

But I will say this. I think he was credible. What I liked about him is that he had no horse in this race. He didn’t volunteer with. Whatever the outcome is, it doesn’t affect him either way. He doesn’t benefit by it. He doesn’t get hurt by it. And I think he was being honest. And I think those are the best type of witnesses. And you’re going to see I asked him some questions here, you know, about his testimony, and you’re going to see how he responded. But if I didn’t think he was credible, I wouldn’t have kept this interview.

I wouldn’t have shown it. I would have just dismissed it. But I think he’s credible. I think he’s sincere, and I think there is a way where he has a heart, where he wants to help people. Now, his choice of a career, not many of us are going to agree with. I don’t agree with male stripper. I’m sorry, I didn’t voice that. I don’t try to, you know, antagonize my guests. If they’re nice enough to come on with me. I don’t look to antagonize them. I don’t beat them up unless they want to get volatile with me.

Then. Then we’ll go at it. But he didn’t. He was respectful. And I, in turn, try to respect people, but I. It’s not an occupation that any of us would honor, I believe. But that’s what he chose at the time. So he was being honest about it, being sincere. And I believe he was a good witness. And I think that he was asked to testify by the government. He didn’t volunteer. He has no personal ax to grind with Diddy. He did know Cassie, and he talks about his relationship with Cassie and how he was introduced and what interaction he had with her.

Some of it you’re not going to like. But like I said, because I respect my audience, I did my best, okay, to portray this in the right way, mainly so you’re getting insight and information about the Diddy trial and about the charges that are against him. That’s what it is. So. So I hope you do take it for that and you understand it in that way. If you have children in the room, I don’t think they should be hearing that. Even though, like I said, we blipped out the things that we didn’t want you to, you know, just because of the language, we didn’t want it.

And again, he was respectful in the way he said it. But I don’t want you. I don’t. I’m not comfortable with it, and neither is my team. So that’s what we did. So I think you can get through this. I think that, you know, you’re going to. You’re going to get some insight into the case. And I asked him some questions, even outside of his testimony that would give you more insight into the case. So that’s what this is all about. So I appreciate him coming on and men listen to what he has to say. He’s going to talk about an issue that many men have experienced.

I know that for a fact it’s out there, and men have talked to me about it. And I think he can offer some help with regard to a serious issue that many men, especially older men, encounter in their lives. And I think he has a sincere desire to help people in that regard. So I want you to tune in and listen to that. Listen to this interview all the way through. I think you’ll get something out of it. So without no further delay, here’s my interview for From Las Vegas with Sheree Hayes. Sheree, first, let me thank you for your patience.

I know we had to delay this a little bit, but I’ve had a very, very hective week. But I’ve been very anxious to talk to you and I appreciate your patience. Oh, man. My pleasure, man. I’m a fan of your video. So I’m actually happy to be here, man. I appreciate the opportunity. Well, thank you very much. And where are you right now? I’m at my home in New Jersey. In New Jersey. Okay. Well, very familiar with New Jersey. Used to be part of my old stomping grounds. So it’s all good. All right, let me start off this way.

First of all, really, thank you for coming on. I know I think talking about this is probably difficult for you because I have to say this is one of the. I’ve never seen a trial like this before. Obviously, I’m not in the courtroom, but, you know, I’m hearing a lot about it. I’ve been asked a lot of questions about it. I’ve actually spoken with a Fellow by the name of Big Homie who had some interaction with Diddy and also with Suge Knight. So they kind of filled me in on certain things. But I gotta tell you, what impact has this whole situation had on you, Sheree? I think that’s a good question to start with, my friends, I know something about having power, whether it’s on the streets or in the media.

It’s all about who controls the narrative. And right now, the mainstream media is trying to control yours, whether you realize it or not. I’ve been using this platform called Ground News, and it’s completely changed how I look at the news. Let me show you exactly what I mean. Remember the Hunter Biden pardon story? How can we forget it? It was everywhere. Well, over a thousand news sources covered that same story. But watch what happens when we compare headlines from the different outlets. You see how each one spins it differently. That’s what makes Ground News different. They’re the only platform that lets you see exactly how the media machine works.

And yes, it is a machine. They break down the political bias of every source. They show you which stories are being buried by different sides. And this is crucial. They expose who actually owns these news organizations. And that makes a difference, a big difference in how it’s reported. In today’s world, you can’t afford to be in the dark. Ground News gives you something invaluable, and that is the ability to see through the smoke and mirrors and the gaslighting of mainstream media. Right now, you can get the same tools I use for half price. Just go to ground news MF or scan this QR code where you’ll get 40% off their premium vantage plan.

Come on, that’s less than a cup of coffee for the same tools I use to stay informed. You know, with everything that’s happening in our country right now, so much going on, you need to see the full picture, not just what they want you to see. So don’t wait on this. Take control of your information today. You want to be in the know the right way. Get to Ground news. It’s an offer that you shouldn’t refuse. So, I mean, man, look, if I’m being honest, I. I don’t even fully know yet, man. Like, I’m doing the interviews and stuff because obviously when you get pushed into this scenario and this limelight and people getting bits and pieces, I just have this narrative of male escort, you know, male escort and bits and pieces.

So I’ve been trying to just do the interviews and stuff, to present myself individually to get Some sort of narrative. But if I’m being honest, man, I’ve been in the house, man, kind of like in hibernation and seclusion, because there’s so much around it and so much negativity, and everybody has an opinion. You know, we live in a time where nobody really looks at the facts. Everything is ideology and opinions, and, you know, half of them are very negative, man. So I’ve been trying to really just, you know, I kind of went into seclusion. You know, I’m definitely dealing with some sort of slight depression or whatever.

I lost 25 pounds. I stopped eating, stopped sleeping. So things just kind of getting back to normal for me a couple of weeks later. Well, I can imagine, you know, obviously under different circumstances. I know what it is to go through all of the trials and all this stuff with the government. It’s not pleasant at all. And especially when it’s high profile and there’s a lot of publicity around it. Let me ask you, were you first approached by the government to come and testify? How did that turn around? Turn about? Yeah, see, so I was in denial, right.

I got a approach for the first time, literally, maybe March of 2024. And at that time, there were no charges, Everything was normal. And they kind of. I feel almost duped, right, because testifying is not something I would have wanted to do. But my. I tried to interpret the law on my own, which was a mistake, and I assumed my testimony was insignificant. And they actually gave me that perspective. Like when they showed up, they kind of just popped up at my building and just was like, hey, we’re interviewing hundreds of people. We’re just doing our due diligence.

Diligence, no problem. We know you were involved. Tell us what happened. And I’m kind of like, flippantly. Yeah, you know, I went there and I’m assuming Homeland Security came, they meant to sex trafficking. And so I understood that, hey, look, I only seen them in the same state. I lived in New York at the time, only saw them in New York. I can’t help you. And then I said, I didn’t see any violence. I didn’t see any aggressive aggressions. He seemed in her right mind, so. So, but I’m still answering the questions. You know, they give you this subtle, almost threat that you’ll be fine as long as you tell the truth.

So I’m gonna tell the truth, you know, So I give them my perspective. And I really did not expect at all to be testified. Like, this conversation happened spring of 2024. I didn’t hear anything back to December of 2024. And even when they contacted me, them then, they didn’t say, you’re gonna be a witness. They told me it’s around the time we gotta turn over our notes, so we gotta turn your name over. You could be contacted, you know, so I’m like, oh, well, whatever, you know, I’m still thinking I’m insignificant. And the only clue I got at that time was the investigator that called me kind of said, hey, do you need help getting an attorney? And I’m like, what do I need an attorney for? You know? And so fast forward to about March, you know, late March.

And then I get a call again, like, hey, do you need the attorney? And I said, listen, why would I need an attorney? And they said, hey, look, it’s a strong possibility we call you. And that’s how I found out. And I really was in denial, man. I didn’t think they were using it. So this is not something you volunteered for. Did you have any ill feelings towards Diddy at that point? I mean, you didn’t go in there trying to hurt him in any way. You just were called and you had to come in because you were basically subpoenaed to come in and testify, correct? Yeah, well, I didn’t get to the part of subpoena.

Right. But I do have a close friend that’s a retired Fed, people in law enforcement. And I didn’t get any of this energy from the actual prosecution. But when you talk to people about what they call the Southern District of New York, they scare the hell out of you, man. They’re like, you don’t want to piss them off. You don’t want to get on their bad side. Look, if they want, just tell them what they want to know and they’ll make a decision. But even the people I confided in, they felt, well, I don’t see how your testimony works, so you’ll probably side through the cracks.

But I ended up. Didn’t, you know, they ended up using me. Well, I understand that. I mean, I was prosecuted by the Southern District way back when by Giuliani. And, you know, they’re the toughest prosecuting district in the country. So when they call you, it’s tough, it’s never pleasant, let’s put it that way. But let’s go back. I know at one point you were restrained. You were called a punisher, mainly because you’re a great basketball player, correct? Yeah, it was a nickname I picked up from the parks in west fourth Street. Okay. And at Some point in time you had an encounter with Diddy and Cassie.

And that was back in 2012, I believe. Yeah, around September. September, early October 2012 was the first encounter. And can you tell us what happened to how you were contacted and what were the, you know, the events that occurred after you were contacted? Yeah, so I’m a male dancer at the time and how I get leads and parties is I would advertise on Google. So in the New York area, if you would put in a Google search maelstrom or whatever had a website that came up. So I don’t think they were personally looking for me. My website ended up and they made a call to hire a guy for what was supposed to be Ms.

Ventura’s birthday party. But at the time she didn’t say who she was. She introduced herself as a woman named Janet. She said that she was married and her husband said she could have a dancer. So I’m expecting a gathering of women to celebrate this and we kind of, you know, the typical thing is I quoted a price is 200 bucks for a dancer. She gives me a location and a time and I show up to do the show. And that was when you met. It was Cassie that reached out to you? It was Cat, yes, it was Cassie that reached out to me.

Okay. And then after that, you know, and I want to make this clear, I’m not looking to. I have nothing against Giddy, what the Diddy whatsoever. I don’t know him. I only know what I’m hearing and what people have told me. But you know, in my, my position always is innocent until proven guilty. He’s got a trial, he’ll go through the process, the jury will make a decision and we’ll see what happens after that. So I’m not here to, to lay anything heavy on Diddy or anything else. I’m just having a conversation with somebody that’s, that’s in the know about certain things.

And then, you know, you kind of noticed some things with, with Cassie, this kind of evolved into something more than just a one time deal with you, correct? Yeah, I mean in total, and I don’t even have an exact amount. I estimated eight to 12 times and it was over a period of two and a half years. So honestly, it could have been more. It’s 12, 13 years ago. I don’t have a clear indication of how many times or whatever, but I estimate eight to 12 times. And you got involved in these. Were you given any specific instructions? Because I know you got involved in these freak offs, correct? Yeah.

So My specific involvement was always the same. And so my very first encounter, when I showed up for what I thought was a party, Ms. Ventura greeted me at the door in a robe, which you can tell she was nude. So the minute she opened the door, it was an obvious scenario that this was gonna be different than a party. And so when we went into the room, obviously there were no guests. It was just me and her at the time. And we got to kind of like the living room area of the suite. And I still tried to go the route as if it was a party.

So I asked her, hey, where do you want me to change? And she immediately explained to me, look, I don’t want you to dance. Me and my husband, we like to create a scene where we want you to change into underwear or a towel. And she pointed into the living room area, which was dimly lit, kind of a sexual ambiance. And all the furniture was covered with sheets. And she said, look, you’re gonna sit here. I’m gonna be here. It was two couches adjacent from each other, and we’re gonna put baby oil on our body and create a environment.

And at some point, my husband’s going to come out to watch. And then she specifically told me, when a husband comes out, I’m not supposed to look at him. I’m not supposed to acknowledge him. I’m not supposed to speak to him. I’m supposed to do my best to act like he’s not even there. And she handed me a handful of money. I counted it when I got into the bathroom. And at that time, it was $800. So I originally quoted 200. So now I got this beautiful woman in front of me. She hands me four times the amount, and it’s like, well, hey, I’m gonna try to make this work.

Because, you know, it seemed like a nice payday and simple at the time, you know. Was that the first time you met Diddy? Where you saw Diddy? Well, so here’s the thing. I didn’t actually see him, right? He. When he did come into the room, and that was we. I came out the bathroom with the towel, and we started making this scene. And at some point, from my peripheral, I could see him walk in the room, but he situated himself all the way across the room, kind of behind a table. It’s like a table and chair set up, and he ended up being there.

But the odd thing about it was he came in a room pretty much nude, but he had his face covered with, I believe it’s called hijab. Or burqa. And this is what the Muslims women wear where they completely cover their face and you can only see the eyes. So I really had no idea who he was. And initially coming in, I didn’t recognize Cassie. She had on a wig. So the distinguishing stuff that would point her out there, her hairstyle because she has like, at the time she had like a shaved hairstyle, it wasn’t able to be recognized.

And I really had no idea who they were to much further into the encounters. So at this point, I mean, it’s a sexual encounter, but there was nothing criminal or illegal done at that point during the whole, during the whole session? I would say, yeah, nothing criminal and illegal about the session itself. I mean the only, I guess illegal scenario would be is the prostitution itself because it was money in exchange. But this, this specific situation we’re talking about, there weren’t even, there wasn’t even any. My very first encounter, I was told it was creating a sexy scene.

We created it. We’re just kind of rubbing oil on each other. And she would do gestures, I would do the same, but there was no actual sexual activity between us. And then at some point, who I’m thinking is her husband, Mr. Combs got up, he left the room, she followed him out, came back and told me, hey, that was great. It was perfect, thank you. Handed me an additional $1,200 and said, hey, look, I’m comfortable with you. When we come back to town, is it okay if I call you again? And I’m like, absolutely sure. And she did at that time offer me the option to finish.

She said, hey, do you want to finish? Which you know, I understand to be. Did I want to? And I actually declined. You know, I wasn’t comfortable with the situation. And I’m trying to be professional, right, Because I believe what the circumstances are. So I said, hey, look, this is not about me. This is for you and your husband. If you’re good, I’m good. And I declined finishing partially and transparency because the uncomfortability of the situation, I probably would have had an issue getting an erection and finishing anyway. So I declined and she said fine. And from there I headed home.

And was that the, was that the only encounter you had with her or were there more? No, that was just the first. Like I said, it went to 8 to 12. So the next encounter, it was pretty much the same, but it was conversations prior to the sexual activity about my sexual health, her sexual health, and the desire to actually do more than just a rub down. So that’s when the S X war encounters started. And let me. Let me ask you, Sheree. This was considered a freak off, right? Even though there was only just the two of you and Diddy present? Because my impression was that there were always a lot of people present at these freak offs.

Yeah, I think there’s a misconception that, you know, Mr. Como, he’s known for throwing these elaborate parties that you can go to a period, a place of the party, and I guess there’s sexual activity and then there’s these kind of scenarios with Ms. Ventura where it’s just him, her and a male and another male creating a sexual environment. And that’s being described the same way. So it just appears that anything that he does with a sexual nature, even on a smaller scale, all these huge parties, they’re all going under the same umbrella as freak off, which I don’t know if that’s accur, but that’s what everything is being described at.

I know when I see myself reported in the media, it says I was a part of a freak off. So this is considered that. Got it. During any of this time, did you ever see any indication that Cassidy might have been in an abusive situation with Diddy? Not at all. Not at all. I always felt it was consented. I always felt everything was. I always felt she was in her right frame of mind. Not. She didn’t appear to be under the influence of any drugs or anything like that. And I never seen any interaction between them that seemed something that was distressful for her.

The only thing that I did say in my testimony was that I saw moments of what I would consider frustration and her reaction. But that was based on directions. Like during our encounters, he would give directions, which was mainly about Is candlelit. Could, you know, move the candle. Move the candle a little bit more, Move whatever. Can you move to the left? Move him to the right. You know what I’m saying? Like these things, and sometimes they were repetitive and very specific. So I would see maybe like a. You know what I’m saying? Like that type of stuff, but nothing that would resemble her being in distress.

Do you know if were these being filmed at all or they were just encounters for his pleasure only. So I don’t know. I don’t know. It was always in a dark room, and it could have very well been a camera or something set up, but nothing that I knew was present or that I consented to. I had no idea. Yeah. The reason I ask you that because I think part of the allegations against Diddy is that he would have these films so that he can have a blackmail situation. And again, these are the allegations, not coming from me, that he would be able to blackmail if anybody were to turn on him.

But you didn’t get any indication of that? No, no. I mean, I could have very well been filmed, but I have no idea. Let me ask you, on cross examination, how did the defense try to portray you? Did they try to beat you up at all? Did they try to discredit you? No, that was surprising to me because it was actually the opposite. They actually took a vow of a route of creating more credibility. So I guess once they heard my initial testimony, and I’m saying I didn’t see any aggression, it seemed consented. My attorney, I think his name is Xavier Donaldson, he went the route of bringing up the fact that I’ve been a male entertainer for 25 years.

And it’s accurate. When you walk into a room as a male entertainer and it’s a room full of women you never met, you have to quickly assess the room because you’re trying to entertain them in a sexual nature. So I have to read the room to make sure whoever I’m going to is comfortable with the activity. So he kind of harped on that. Look, you’ve been doing this 25 years. Would you ever go to dance on a woman or engage with a woman who was uncomfortable with you interacting with her? And the answer is absolutely not.

You know, I have to be able to read the room, get to a woman’s comfort level and assess that. So then he kind of shifted that narrative to the situation with Ms. Rentura. Well, look, based on your knowledge, your expertise of doing this all these years, if you would have noticed her being uncomfortable or in a place out of her mind or not in a proper state, which you have proceeded, and the answer is absolutely not. So I was expecting kind of a tough. Because all of my, you know, they do the mock courses, right? So.

And their expectation was to be to discredit and stuff like that, but he actually went a complete, completely different lane and provided more credibility. Well, that makes sense to me because I think their major defense here in all of this is that all of this was consensual. Nobody was abused, nobody was forced into this. Nobody was, you know, physically abused. But this was all consensual relationships and S X. So it would make sense that they would treat you that way. That’s why I asked that question. Did Cassie ever, you know, say to you that she was.

Obviously, we saw the video of what happened in the hotel. So we know that there was that one incident. But did Cassie ever express to you that Diddy was abusive to her in any way? No. I mean, we. We actually. Other than very, very cordial initial conversation, you know, when I would arrive, hey, how’s work? How’s things? Or whatever, we didn’t get into a lot of personable conversation. You know, it was kind of like, stuff. So in terms of her confiding in me of anything that could have been going on, it wasn’t. I mean, most of the conversation was, again, just checking in on what’s going on with me and surfacing.

One time I had, like, a scar on my arm. She mentioned, hey, I got some scar cream, gave it to me. Try that. And she more or less just thanked me for being. Keeping their identity and what they do private, you know, in terms of, obviously, this has been going on for years, and they didn’t get any feedback, indication that I’m talking about it publicly and putting their business out. So, no, absolutely not. I had no indication. And when. And when this ended with you, did it just. You just weren’t called anymore? Did it end on a good note or they just didn’t need your services anymore? How did it end? So I never had a full reason why it ended, but my assumption was it had went a long period of time where I had not been called.

Let’s say maybe about six months. And during that period of time, I had an injury. I tore my bicep. So. And anybody knows about that injury, it’s a rough injury. You can’t work out. You can’t do anything. It’s a long healing process. So after going through that healing process and getting called, me myself, I know the physical condition I’m usually in is not the same. And also with that long period of time, we’re in kind of like a sexual scenario. And one of the directions were very specific. We were doing kind of like, preliminary stuff, and one of the instructions was he wanted to see.

So he kind of walked over in the middle of us doing a massage thing, and he actually threw up, like, a wad of condoms on the couch. And he basically says, I want you to her, you know, and honestly, the time in between was never really a comfortable scenario for me anyway. I couldn’t perform. So I always assumed the fact that I could not perform that time. And I’m showing up months later not in great physical shape and stuff like that. I kind of felt like, well, this is a fail. I did not make the fantasy that I was hired for.

So I assumed that could be a reason why I wouldn’t be called back. So that’s my assumption, but that’s kind of how the last situation went, and that was the last time I was called. And you never spoke to Cassie again after that? No communication. Nor did he. No. And so here’s the thing. I never had communication with Diddy the entire time. No. Ironically, I never spoke to him. I never had even direct eye contact with him. The first time, after all these instances that I had direct eye contact with him was leaving the courtroom after I testified.

Wow. And I think it’s fair to say, Sheree, that you have no interest in which way this turns out. You know, if he’s guilty, he’s guilty. If he’s innocent, he’s innocent. There’s no. You have no horse in this race, so to speak. Correct? I don’t, man. Actually, that is something that I really wanted to portray as solid as possible with my testimony. I am compelled to be here, and I have to give the facts of what I was involved in and what I saw. But I didn’t want to have any bias or anything associated with my testimony that seemed like I was in favor of evil party.

They got 12 jurors there. That’s their job to decide. You know, I think that’s really commendable, having been to trial five times myself. You know, the best witnesses are those that have no interest in the outcome. You’re up there to tell the truth, and that’s it. Whatever way it works out, it works out. So that’s commendable. And I have to say that. And again, I’m a veteran of those situations. Let me ask you, you wrote a book. In Search of Freezer Meat is the title, right? Yeah. Explain that title to me. So at some point, as men age, right, I started experiencing erectile dysfunction, right? And luckily for me, it was all.

It was. It was nothing physical. It was all mental. I just got in my head, creating anxiety. And one point during the struggles where I’m dependent on pills and stuff, I took a trip to the Caribbean. I’m out there with this beautiful girl. We’re on this beautiful beach. It’s like a paradise environment. And we get in the water and we start messing around. And it was unexpected, right? So for whatever reason, I’m calm and I’m out in the Caribbean. And she reaches down and I am still right, which is not my norm. And for some reason, when this woman got a hold, she said, man, this thing is hard.

Freezing meat and man, listen, it was like a euphoric moment, man. It was like, oh. Because I was living in a place of low confidence and not feeling my masculinity the way I needed to because I’m struggling with this issue. So her giving me this compliment was like this moment on top of the mountain. So after that moment, I was always searching to get back to freeze me, you know. So I kind of played off of it with the title of the book because, you know, I actually said this on the stand. But what’s harder than freeze of me, right? If you’re gonna go there, what’s harder than that? So I kind of ran with that name, took that story.

It’s some marketing stuff to it, because you hear freezer me, that’s not really a topic you’re gonna forget. And it’s just really a self help book where trying to help men who are going through mental issues to try to be proactive because some guys just. You just give up. You know, when you can’t find a remedy, you give up. Then you feel emasculated. It affects other parts of your life, it affects your relationships. So I put this book out to kind of be a self help tool for guys to get back in the game. I use a lot of funny stories about my life to show how I got there, how I found remedies, and how I eventually solved it with going all the way out because I got a plan.

And every time people hear that, they say, this guy must be crazy. But I guarantee you is a better option than not being able to perform at all, you know, and it’s actually an extremely effective option with today’s technology. So it’s by far the best top three decisions I made in my life. Well, let me tell you, it’s certainly a. I think it’s a bigger problem with men, especially as they age. But even now in younger men, I’m understanding because of all the pornography on, on, you know, online, it’s affecting younger men also. So I think, you know, any, any memoir or any, any book like that that’s encouraging to men, you know, to help them deal with that situation.

Because most of it is mental and emotional a great deal at a time. That’s what it is, you know, so I’m glad you wrote a book like that and I’m sure a lot of people can benefit from it, really. Oh, man, I appreciate that, man. And honestly, the feedback, It’s a catch 22 because I’m getting a lot of publicity because the book was mentioned in the trial I actually told the story about Cassie and Diddy in the book without any names because it was written prior to the trial. But It’s a catch 22 because it is a serious subject and it is trying to help people.

But the association with the trial kind of takes the seriousness away from it. So I’m trying to just maneuver around it. But, you know, I appreciate you giving me this platform to talk about it in this way because I am getting the men who get it and read it. Man, I get these positive DMs and the reviews that I’m getting on Amazon and stuff is super positive because I do believe it’s a helpful tool. This is the book I would have needed when I was going through my tough time. And my time was forget about it because I grew up a male.

So I have this symbol ego type of standard that I set for myself. So me going through problems felt demoralizing. So I know this book would have helped me. So I wanted to help other guys that could be in similar situations. Well, that’s great. And that certainly is demoralizing for many men. And I have a predominantly male audience, so I think my audience will really appreciate this. So obviously there’ll be a link where they can go and get your book from here, and we’ll certainly get it out there for you. Let me ask you this, Sheree.

Being in this industry somewhat, so many things are coming out now between the whole Epstein matter and the Diddy matter, that the industry, the entertainment industry is rife with sex. It’s all about sex and these parties and, you know, unfortunately with. With underage women and men, you know. So I recently did an interview with a gentleman by the name of Paul Hutchinson. And he was. He’s very big into human trafficking. And he was involved in the Epstein case. He actually financed and was one of the characters, predominantly characters in the movie Sound of Freedom. I don’t know if you’re familiar with that movie.

It was about the, you know, the human trafficking of young girls and boys. No way. I did hear about the movie. Yeah. It was kind of like a quiet. Was a quiet movement about it, but I never got a chance to see it. Yeah, but it seems like, you know, high profile people, people in high positions, these kind of encounters, not only with Diddy, but with others that may not have been highly publicized that we’re not aware of. But these all parties and encounters, they seem to be, you know, rife in the entertainment industry. And you being in the capacity that you were in, did you happen to notice that were most of your calls from people in entertainment or people in high profile places? Yeah.

So what I do notice is that over the past, I want to say five to seven years, like I do a weekend every week, mail review, show. So it’s a club full of people. And what I notice has become the norm is I get more and more couples, more and more couples. Like they come in every single weekend now. And it’s this dynamic where the guys bring the girls in and they, the girls are interacting with the guys who can tell they’re in relationships and stuff. And then there’s usually a solicitation associated during the fact. For more.

And this was never a part of. I’ve been in the business 30 years, right. So there’s been a movement of it and the more you hear about it, there’s these lifestyle groups where for some reason there’s just a very, very open idea of parties and swingers. And this was something that was very taboo for many years. And now it’s not even just the ultra rich celebrity clients, but it’s down to just the normal middle class. Everybody’s involved in this movement as it’s almost like a fad, like it’s the thing to do. And I have noticed it’s been a huge uptick in this type of behavior on all levels.

So do you think that, you know, all this that we see on the Internet had anything to do with it, this rise in this kind of behavior? And that’s just a curiosity question for me. You know what? Absolutely, absolutely. So I’ll start with myself, right? Being a young man that being a regular young man, right. At 22 years old, if you flashed me a set of. I was excited, you know. And then I became a male dancer. And now I’m in clubs full of women every single weekend. And I’m, I’m actually paid to for physical contact, right? Physical contact is just as much as you want.

So at some point I got desensitized from just the physical visual of the contact and then it became more mental, right. So that was my experience. So now when you bombard just on your phone all day long, all day long, all day long, you’re going to get desensitized to the, the kind of stim that would be beneficial to you if you didn’t get it all the time. So then you set the threshold higher and higher and higher. And I think that’s happening to our society on a whole. It’s just everything is just so over that people are pushing the envelope to much Further places to get stimulation.

So I think you’re spot on with that. Let me ask you a question. The Ed that you experience, what do you think brought it on for you? So it was a pressure, right? So first, first of all, I have this. This reputation. I’m the Punisher, right? So any woman who meets me, she’s expecting me to fly into the bedroom with a cape, right? I’m supposed to create this experience. And listen, I wanted to, right? I wanted to live up to the expectations. So what I ended up doing, probably unnecessarily, at an age where I didn’t need Cialis and Viagra or whatever, I’m popping it because I want to.

I want to. I want to be. I want to hit 73 home runs, right? You know what I’m saying? I want to. I don’t want 30 home runs, right? I want to hit 73 home runs, right? So I’m popping these pills early, not understanding that if I put too much pressure on myself and I get the anxiety, it’s going to stop it anyway. So once I got to the point where I’m anxious about my performance, I’m over medicating and the pills are not working right. And they’re not working because the pills are not working. It’s just all these pills do is expand your blood vessels.

But if you experience anxiety, you release cortisol, which constricts your blood vessels, and the cortisol’s stronger. So part of the reason why the Diddy story was in the book was because that situation created so much anxiety for me that you’re supposed to take one 20 milligram Cialis. I’m taking. Well, one didn’t work. Let me take two. Let me take a Cialis and a Viagra. You know what? Let me ride around at some gas station. My friend said, this stuff is good. Let me try this. And now I’m on 100 milligrams or 150 milligrams or something that should only be 20.

But the anxiety is still not working, right? Because I still can’t achieve it. So now I lose faith and getting in an erection. And I think what you alluded to earlier with young guys getting problems early, they probably did the same thing that I did. They, they’re. They’re medicating and using enhancers when they don’t even really need them. And then if they run into any scenario with the enhancers, now, they losing confidence and probably experiencing anxiety. So that’s good for men to know if you really have an ED situation that taken Cialis or. It doesn’t really help.

It doesn’t. Yeah. If your ED is being caused by anxiety, you can’t counteract the restriction of blood flow by the pills. Your anxiety is going to be more powerful than the pills. That’s really interesting. So let me ask you a question. From this point on, what are your plans for your future, Sherry? What do you want to do now and how has this really impacted your life as far as future plans? I mean, in one good way, I guess. Although it had nothing to do with the Diddy situation. You wrote a great book that’s going to be helpful to men and that’s, that’s a good start.

What’s your future plans? Yeah, I mean you just kind of pegged, you kind of just aligned it, man. Like I do want to hopefully take this platform, right. And, and hopefully I can reach enough men and not just write a book. But you know, I started a website is friezamed.com and I actually want to offer consultations. You know, I ended up getting a, a plant myself and literally after a year of me having it, my dad got one, then his neighbor got one, then a friend of mine got one. And I have all these just personal friends and people that I spoke to that are struggling, that are considering it or considering other remedies that can help them.

So I want to offer some sort of counseling and coaching because this is a shameful thing. Right. So men, we don’t want to talk about this. Right? Right. We need somebody that we can vent to, get information from a knowledgeable place and guide us through. So I know there is a void in that also. So I do want to offer for guys that are considering that’s going through stuff that needs answers, maybe there’s a consultation route where I can offer help in that realm. And honestly man, just my mail review business is pretty solid. This is not even like necessarily a business path that I’m trying to grow to the biggest thing.

But I do enjoy the self help aspect of it, man. I do enjoy helping guys relating to them, being that kind of friend that he knows what I’m going through and hopefully I can offer that on a platform where it’s available and become that tool and that voice for the guys that are in this specific situation. Well, I can tell you this Sheree, I mentor a lot of men and especially middle aged, a little bit older and you wouldn’t be surprised, but I think a lot of people would be surprised at how many people struggle with this with an ED situation.

And it’s. So much of it is. Is. Is mental and emotional. So if you can be a, you know, a help to them, I think, number one, I think it would be. I think you’d be overwhelmed with the amount of people, if they got confidence in you, that would be contacting you looking for help. And I think the book is a good start, and I think it’s commendable and very noble to be a voice out there and help for those people that are really struggling with this. So I appreciate that. Oh, man. Thank you, man. Thank you.

I was excited to come on here because I was like, I know who your audience is, and I see your interviews and stuff, so I assume we would align with the understanding and the need of this. So I really appreciate that, man. Thank you. Well, thank you. And I appreciate the position you took, you know, having been to trial five times myself. And I really mean it. Certain things stand out. And the fact that you, you know, you were called and you got to do your legal obligation and you just got up there and told the truth, and that’s the best witness.

Somebody that has no horse in the race, so to speak, just goes up there and tells the truth, not the outcome, is whatever it is, and that’s it. So I appreciate you taking that position, and I think you’ve been really honest throughout this interview, so I appreciate it very much, and I’m sure we’ll be in touch again. And I’m going to really promote the book because I think it’s necessary. I’m into helping men a lot. I do a lot of men’s groups. It’s something I’ve been doing now for the past 25 years. And I know that this is a real problem.

So any support that I can give you in the future, Sheree, just reach out. No problem at all. Oh, man. Thank you so much, man. I truly appreciate that, man. Honestly, man, you’re the first person to endorse me in this manner, and it means a lot, man. Thank you so much. All right, well, you got it. And thank you again for all your patience. You’ve been a gentleman throughout. I know we had to postpone once or twice, but here we got it, and I think it’s a good one. I think people are going to appreciate it.

All right, man. Thank you, man. I can’t wait to see it. All right, brother. You take care. All right, people. So you heard me give a long introduction to this interview with Sheree. I hope that you see that I was on point with That I believe he was credible. He had no horse in the race, meaning whether he gets convicted, Diddy or not. He wasn’t trying to hurt Diddy. He wasn’t trying to help Diddy. He was just telling the truth, and that’s it. I think he was honest. You can judge by his answers, by his demeanor, whether he was honest or not.

I believe he was credible and what he had to say about an issue that men go through, especially at an older age and unfortunately at a younger age. Now, because of all the stuff that is available online to young people, you know what I’m talking about, we can’t dismiss it. It’s out there that maybe he can help. He wrote a book, and I don’t know the title of the book. Okay, he told you why he put the title on there. All right, maybe we don’t agree with the title. I haven’t read the book. But if there’s information in the book that could be helpful to some men that are suffering with that affliction, with that, you know, that issue that oftentimes is emotional and mental, maybe it’s something that can help you.

So read it. You know, again, I haven’t read it. I don’t know what the content is, but from hearing what he had to say, it seems that he has a desire to help people. Going through the same issue that he had and that he was able to overcome. He talked about it openly. You know, sometimes people, even though things that are uncomfortable, if we talk about it in a respectful way, in a way that’s going to benefit somebody, we should do it. You know, people suffer with certain things that they’re embarrassed to talk about, but these are things that are part of life, and we should talk about it when we can.

If we can be helpful, if we can offer some kind of, you know, solution, some kind of fix, we should do it. A remedy. We should do it. So in that regard, you know, maybe you should pick up the book and maybe contact him. You know, maybe he can be helpful to you. He seems to have a sincere desire to do that. So I, again, was uncomfortable with the interview, but I was pleasantly surprised with my guest because I believe he was honest and credible. And I bring you that information for your benefit. For those of you that are interested in this trial and what’s going on, and many people are, it’s a hot topic.

And we try to give you, you know, my perspective on things that are of interest to people. So there you have it. Sheree Hayes, thank you for being a guest. Thank you for tuning in. We appreciate it very much. How do I always leave you people? Same way. Never going to change. Be safe, be healthy. God bless each and every one of you. Your family, your neighbors, your community, your loved ones. And please, for those of you that want to be part of a community, michaelfrancis.com family I’m telling you, jump on board. You don’t sign a contract.

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