It’s their way of trying to manage their emotions, but it’s also a sign that you’re on their mind more than they’d like to admit. Now why do they unblock you afterward? This is where it gets interesting. Often it’s part of a mental game they’re playing. Sometimes even subconsciously. They unblock you because they’re hoping you’ll chase after them. They want to feel like they’re the prize, like you’re willing to go the extra mile just to be in their life. It’s about control, validation, and sometimes even testing your commitment to see if you’ll reach out or appear desperate.

As chosen ones, you need to recognize this for what it is. A cycle that’s not about genuine connection, but rather about maintaining control. When they unblock you, it’s because their initial plan of blocking didn’t pan out. They thought it would make them feel better or make you chase them, but when that doesn’t happen, they pull you back into their circle. Now here’s the deal. When someone blocks you, it’s often because they want you to chase after them. They see themselves as the prize, the one who’s worth pursuing, and they enjoy the thrill of you trying to catch up.

To them, it’s like a game. When they block you, they’re running away, expecting you to run after them. When you chase someone, they keep looking back to see if you’re still following, and they just keep running faster and further away. It becomes a never-ending cycle. In relationships, if you keep chasing, you’re likely to never catch up. And this chasing game can actually make you less appealing. The more you pursue, the more they’ll try to stay out of reach, always moving further away from you. Alright, here’s where the game changes. They block you because they want you to run after them.

They’re hoping you’ll find some way to get closer, like reaching out to their friends or family, or showing up in places they go. But what happens when you don’t play along? You’re not chasing, you’re not asking around about them, you’re just not doing any of that. When you stop chasing, the game ends. People often get a sense of validation when someone chases them. It makes them feel wanted and important. But when you don’t give them that satisfaction, you break the cycle. If they look back and see that you’re not following, they lose their reason to keep running.

And that’s why they unblock you. They realize you’re not playing their game. You’re not chasing, you’re not begging, and you’re not giving them the reaction they expected. In this scenario, you’re actually winning by doing nothing. By not chasing or begging, you show them that you don’t need to play their game, and that’s a powerful position to be in. Alright, here’s the thing. They want you to reach out in other ways, like contacting their family or friends who know about your relationship. They expect you to go that extra mile to get their attention.

But when you don’t do any of that, the fun stops for them. Their plan falls apart because you’re not playing along. When they realize you’re not reacting the way they hoped, they might unblock you. They expected you to act needy or desperate, maybe by trying to connect through their sister or another relative. It’s a way to manipulate you, to make you feel like you have to go above and beyond just to get back in their good graces. But if you don’t act needy, if you don’t chase after them, or beg them with gifts, or pleading words like, you’re everything to me, I can’t live without you, then you’re not giving them the power they’re looking for.

They want to hear you say things like, you’re my world, my everything, so they can feel in control and puffed up with pride. When you beg, it boosts their ego, making them feel superior. But if you don’t, if you stay calm and don’t give in to those emotions, they lose that sense of control. They might even start to treat you poorly or act like you don’t matter, because they’re not getting that reaction they crave. So by staying strong and not begging, you keep yourself respect, and you avoid falling into their manipulative games.

When you act like this, you’re putting yourself in the position of a victim. But remember, as someone who’s strong and capable, you’re more than that. You are meant to be a conqueror. Understand this. Anything that wasn’t with you from birth can leave at any time. And if something or someone decides to leave, don’t go begging or chasing after them. Don’t let yourself appear desperate or needy. If they decide to leave, let them go. Don’t run after them, and don’t try to win them back with gifts, money, or any kind of tokens.

Instead, focus on yourself and your own path. Spend your energy on things that have real meaning and purpose in your life. Work on what will help you grow and become independent. When you learn to make your own money and take care of yourself, everything starts to feel easier. You get to choose what you eat, where you sleep, and how you live your life. That sense of freedom solves a lot of your worries. So focus on building something for yourself that allows you to cover your own expenses. When you do that, you won’t feel desperate, needy, or like you have to beg for anyone’s attention.

You’ll never have to beg if people leave, pull away, betray, or stop loving you. When this happens, shift your focus to taking care of yourself. Work on making your own money, paying your own bills, and securing your own place to live. If you’re able to feed and clothe yourself, pay your bills, and support your small family, even just one or two kids, you’re already blessed. Being self-sufficient is a true blessing, and it’s something to be thankful for. If you haven’t reached that point yet, don’t worry, it’s never too late. Start working on yourself now.

Remember, what you focus on grows, because your energy flows where your attention goes. You become what you give your time and thoughts to, so if you spend your energy chasing others, begging, or acting desperate, that’s the state you’ll remain in. But if you shift your mindset, stop worrying about those who leave, and instead focus on your own life, you’ll see yourself as a victor, not a victim. Understand that everything happens for a reason, and no challenge is the end. Keep working on yourself, building your strength, and pushing forward. You’ll rise above whatever comes your way.

Consider picking up some self-development or inspirational books, or anything that can help you grow. Books on personal finance, starting a business, or even religious texts can be really helpful. One book I highly recommend is Rich Dad, Poor Dad, by Robert Kiyosaki. It’s an excellent read that can truly shift your perspective on money and life. As you go through it, you’ll find yourself rethinking your approach, learning new things, and seeing life in a whole new way. Rich Dad, Poor Dad, is a great starting point. It’s powerful and packed with insights that can change how you think about finances.

Another book by Kiyosaki that you might find helpful is The Cash Flow Quadrant. This book dives into investing and other financial strategies, providing practical advice for building wealth. Start with these books. They’re a great way to begin transforming your mindset and your life. Make the most of your time by investing in yourself through learning, rather than dwelling on things that make you feel sad or desperate. Remember, you’re not meant to live as a beggar or a needy person. There’s a strength within you, and it’s time to tap into that potential. Don’t let anything hold you back from becoming the best version of yourself.

You weren’t made to live in desperation. You were meant to be a winner, a victor, someone who achieves great things. You have the potential to be strong, successful, and powerful. So trust in God, and put your faith in Him, not in people. If you do that, everything will work out well, because you are a child of the Most High. Alright, I’ll wrap things up here, and I’ll see you in my next video. Thank you for your understanding, and I hope these words have resonated with you, inspiring you to grow and thrive. Thanks for watching, and I’m signing off for now.

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