Someones HEART Is ACHING for You They Cant Find Your ENERGY in Anyone Else

Someone who was emotionally distant is now feeling deep regret and sadness after losing you. They’re realizing the value of your love and the safety they felt with you. This person, who was never taught how to handle love or heartbreak, is now facing their feelings and the consequences of their decisions. Their silence wasn’t indifference, but emotional paralysis, and now they’re left with the feelings they tried to avoid.

When this message first landed in my spirit, I’ll be honest. It felt petty. Like, well that’s what they get. That cold energy of, they should have known better. Almost like looking down at someone with no space for compassion. But as I sat with it longer, as I let it settle in my body, something shifted. And what I felt next was deep, aching grief. Whoever this person is, they are truly hurting. They miss you. Not in some shallow, performative, ego-driven way. I’m talking about soul-deep sorrow. And I don’t say that lightly. You know I don’t usually bring through love messages, that’s not the lane I typically move in.

So when I do, it’s because the emotion is current and heavy. And this one hit hard. This person, whether male or female, is sitting with their own mess, crying, regretting, mourning what they lost with you. I feel it especially strong if this is a masculine energy. Someone who was emotionally unavailable, maybe even cold. Someone who’s been conditioned not to feel, not to show weakness, not to cry. But now, that armor is cracking, that heart is breaking open. And I’ll tell you why. This person’s heart chakra is being activated. That numbness they’ve carried for years is melting under the weight of their own longing.

They may have spent years disconnected from you, from themselves, from love. But something about losing you has pulled it all to the surface. They’re replaying every moment they dismissed your value, every time they chose pride over presence. And it’s not just about missing your body, they miss your spirit, your warmth, your light, your acceptance. They felt safe with you in a way they never felt anywhere else. This is someone who may have never been loved properly, not by their parents, not by past partners. So when they met you, it terrified them. You held a mirror to their pain.

And instead of leaning in, they ran. But now, there’s nowhere left to run. And that absence, that silence between you, it’s screaming at them. You weren’t just another person, you were the beginning of their healing. And now they have to figure out how to live without that, or how to rise and meet you differently. Whoever this masculine energy is, and this could be a man or someone just deeply rooted in masculine traits, they are going through a heart shattering realization right now. You may have thought they didn’t care. You may have convinced yourself they were cold, detached, or just didn’t love you the way you deserved.

But I’m here to tell you, they’re feeling everything now. This person was never taught how to hold love, especially after heartbreak. Masculines often shut completely down. They build walls instead of healing wounds, they withdraw, they bury the pain. And that’s exactly what this person did when they let you go. But now, that heart space is cracking wide open. And it’s not subtle. It’s not quiet. It’s deep grief. And it’s forcing them to sit with every decision they made. Especially the one where they chose someone else over you. Because let me tell you something real, the one they left you for.

That person was a lie dressed as truth. A karmicus talal kozas, amelie visatu kros tenekik mindent, amit hamis morden rajuk vetitek. All the things they accused you of. All the doubts they had about your intentions. The karmic partner they ran to is the one who truly embodies that energy. So now, this masculine is looking at the truth. And it hurts. Whether it was a photo you posted, a glimpse of you outliving your life, or maybe even seeing you on a date with someone new. Something triggered a wave of regret so strong they can’t outrun it anymore.

They know they chose wrong. And what’s worse is they realize you were the one who loved them in purity, despite all the brokenness they carried. This is the beginning of a heart chakra awakening for them. For some, it’ll lead to transformation. For others, just an ache they’ll carry for years. Either way, what you need to know is this. Their silence was never indifference. It was emotional paralysis. And now, the very thing they thought they could avoid, feeling, is all they’re left with. You didn’t just walk away. You triggered their reckoning. And they know now, they lost something sacred.

This person from your past, whether it’s a masculine, a feminine, or someone who carried both energies, they’re sitting in the thick of their awakening. And it’s not graceful. It’s not poetic. It’s a storm of grief, regret, and painful realization that they’re facing alone. Because what they’re seeing now is the truth they didn’t want to believe when you were still beside them. They’ve gone through every stage of heartbreak and the anger. That one hit hardest. Angry at themselves. Angry that they threw away something divine. Angry that they didn’t trust their own inner knowing when it came to you.

Because truthfully, you brought them peace. Your love made them feel held in a way nothing else ever had. And the moment someone planted seeds of doubt about you, lies, projections, jealousy, they believed it. They didn’t even question it. And that’s the part they can’t forgive themselves for. Because now, after everything, they’re asking, Why didn’t I protect that love? Why didn’t I stand 10 toes down for someone who gave me nothing but warmth, light and loyalty? It’s haunting them. And what’s worse, they now see clearly that the karmic they chose over you.

That was the real lie. That was the projection. That’s the one who carries all the toxicity they were tricked into believing lived in you. If someone said you were strange or too spiritual, they now realize you were just in tune. If someone said you were manipulative or cold, they now see you were guarded and protective of your peace. With good reason, everything they feared you might be. They’ve experienced firsthand with the karmic. And it’s breaking them. This person is having a full circle moment, a revelation. And it hurts because it’s too late to undo what they did.

Too late to unsay what they said. Too late to unchoose what they chose. They’re realizing they didn’t just fumble a relationship. They fumbled their peace, their joy, and possibly even their purpose. And now all they can do is sit with the knowing that the love they once held in their hands was real. And they let it go. This person, whoever they were to you, really got caught up in a web of lies, lies they heard, believed, and repeated about you without question. And now, they’re sitting in the fallout of their own decisions, realizing none of it was ever true.

The rumors? That you were wild, unstable, into dark things, too clingy, too emotional? Not enough. Every single one of those stories turned out to be projections. None of it matched who you actually are, but the karmic they ran to. That’s a different story, because everything they accused you of, they’ve now experienced firsthand. That karmic, male or female, was the one really moving fast, using their body, chasing validation, chasing comfort through manipulation. Some of them even went as far as trying to trap this person with a pregnancy. For some, it was fake. For others, it worked.

And now this person is tied to a situation they never planned for, possibly raising a child with someone they don’t even like, let alone love. You, on the other hand, were the real thing. You were solid. You showed up with love and light and loyalty. But instead of recognizing your value, they judged you through someone else’s lens. They didn’t trust what they felt in your presence, they trusted the voices outside the room, and they’re regretting that every single day. It’s been a long process. This isn’t new. For many of them, it’s been a year or more of slow, painful realizations.

One betrayal after another, one disappointment after another. Every mask the karmic war has slipped, and your person is finally seeing it all clearly. And with that clarity comes grief. Real grief. Because they know now. You were irreplaceable. The karmic never loved them like you did. The karmic never brought peace to their spirit like you did. And now they’re realizing they gave up something divine for something performative. And once the performance ended, there was nothing left but chaos. And maybe they’ll never get the chance to tell you this. But you need to know.

They know they fumbled. They know who you are now. And the loss of you. That’s a wound they’ll carry for the rest of their life. [tr:trw].