It’s almost as if they started to ghost you, slowly fading out of your life despite your attempts to keep the communication going. Over time, you noticed that the messages and calls became less frequent until they almost stopped altogether. Even though you’ve tried reaching out to reconnect and keep the relationship alive, it seems like they just ignore your efforts. They act as though you’re not there anymore, which is obviously very painful and disappointing. This change is tough to handle because it leaves you wondering what went wrong and why they’ve chosen to distance themselves after being so close.

This change in their behavior marks a big shift, as they once showed a lot of interest and a strong connection with you. It looks like they’ve moved on, maybe more easily than you would have thought, pulling away from the bond you both once enjoyed. This might be because they were dealing with complicated feelings, feeling too much from the relationship more than they could handle. Even though it seemed like they wanted to move on, it turns out they weren’t really ready. They thought that by moving away from you, their problems would be solved, and everything would get better.

The feelings they had for you were deep and strong, touching not just on romance, but deeply emotional and mental aspects too. They connected with you more deeply than they had with anyone else before, which was both powerful and overwhelming for them. This intense connection made them feel very close to you, maybe even closer than they were ready for. Eventually, the intensity of these feelings got to be too much for them. They ended up feeling emotionally drained and stressed, overwhelmed by how strong their emotions were. This overwhelming feeling led them to stop talking to you, essentially ghosting you as a way to cope with their feelings.

After this, they started seeing someone else. It looks like as they tried to move on, they were really struggling with their own emotions. They seemed to be getting in their own way, making things harder for themselves by freaking out over how strongly they felt about you. They started to think that their strong emotions might not be a good thing, but a sign of trouble. They worried that feeling so intensely could mean their relationship with you might turn unhealthy. This fear made them question whether their feelings were right or wrong. They thought that if they kept feeling this way about you, it would just cause more problems and mess up their life even more.

Because of this, they decided to pull away from you and start a new relationship with someone else. They believed this new relationship would be less complicated and wouldn’t stir up so many intense emotions. It seems they really scared themselves with how they reacted and felt. They pushed themselves too hard, got very stressed, and ended up feeling a lot of chaos inside. They didn’t know how to manage these strong emotions and ended up feeling incredibly overwhelmed. They felt like they couldn’t maintain the kind of connection they had with you. They realized they were thinking about you so much that it was consuming a significant part of their day.

This led them to question whether such intense feelings were normal or if it was too much. As they continued to worry about their feelings, they began to feel very unsettled within themselves. This discomfort made them decide that they couldn’t handle the intensity anymore. Feeling that it was too much to cope with, they chose to move away from the relationship. Instead, they gravitated towards someone who was less demanding emotionally. This new person doesn’t challenge them much or stir strong emotions, which made them feel more at ease, even though this might not be the healthiest choice.

They thought this new, less intense situation was normal and okay, but in reality it might not be the right thing for them. For some, this shift might look like they’ve just found a new friend. Someone to spend time with without romantic progress, because this new relationship doesn’t evoke strong emotions. They convinced themselves that this was a more manageable and suitable situation, even though it might not be fulfilling in the deeper, more meaningful ways they initially experienced with you. It seems that the situation has been quite difficult for them, and it’s not making them happy at all.

They’ve ended up with someone they don’t genuinely like or feel drawn to. They don’t have a real connection with this new person, but they chose this path because it’s less challenging emotionally. Delivering messages like this is tough, because it involves sharing insights about behaviors that aren’t very kind, like ghosting you and then choosing to be with someone they don’t truly connect with. They’re with this new person because this relationship doesn’t provoke strong emotions or make them question themselves deeply, which is easier for them to handle. What they felt towards you was very strong and natural.

They experienced a deep emotional connection with you. However, now they’re in a situation where they don’t feel that intensity, and to them, this feels more normal and manageable. They think that not feeling overwhelmed is what should be expected in relationships, even though it may not be fulfilling or meaningful in the way their connection with you was. Even though they are spending time with other people, they still think about you a lot. Despite feeling very confused and uncertain about your relationship, wondering whether they should be with you, or whether things could work out, they remain overwhelmed by their thoughts of you.

They are actually still obsessed with you, even though your interactions may have dwindled and you might not be talking much or asking each other many questions. The key point here is that they still care deeply about you. They feel a strong attraction and like you a lot, and this hasn’t changed despite the circumstances. They still feel a deep connection to you and really like you. As they continue interacting with others, they are coming to realize that they have never stopped thinking about you. Over time, they will recognize that their feelings for you are stronger than what they have felt for anyone else, and this realization will likely strike them profoundly.

They are beginning to question their life choices, particularly why they chose to be with someone they didn’t truly have feelings for. This was largely because they were trying to avoid the intense emotions they felt towards you. With time, they will come to understand that these strong feelings were not excessive, but were normal human reactions to their deep connection with you. They can’t escape these intense emotions or the intimate energy they feel towards you. They’ll realize that they let you go out of fear, even though their feelings for you were incredibly strong.

Additionally, they will see that their attraction to you is both powerful and meaningful. As they interact with other people, they might face questions or comments from others, wondering why they are in their current relationship if it lacks depth and emotional engagement. These interactions will likely prompt further reflection about their feelings and the stark contrast between how they feel about you compared to others. This realization might lead them to understand just how connected and drawn they are towards you, highlighting a significant emotional bond that persists despite their attempts to move away. This person, who has turned their back on you and chosen a different path, will eventually realize just how much they are obsessed with you.

They will understand that they’ve never truly stopped thinking about you. It’s like they needed to go through this experience to lose you from their life temporarily, to truly understand the value of what they had with you. They will come to see that what they felt for you was significantly deeper and more meaningful than they initially acknowledged. This realization will likely be a turning point for them, a lesson about appreciating what is truly important in their lives. If any of this resonates with you, please let me know. Thank you for tuning in, and take care.

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