They Mocked You For Being Too Kind.. But God Is Showing Them Your Strength Was Divine All Along

But then came the shift. God woke you up. You’re not the same anymore. In today’s world, the enemy’s tactics may look new, but it’s still the same ancient spirit. Deceitful, hungry, and calculated. It moves through people who smile in your face while hiding their schemes. People who only reach out when they’re empty and see your light as a quick refill. People who mistake meekness for permission to walk all over you. But they made a mistake. They mistook the lamb and met a lion. Because now you’ve got boundaries. Now you’ve got clarity. You’ve learned to guard your peace and protect your spirit.

You’re no longer entertaining people who feed off your emotional generosity, but offer nothing in return. You’re not giving anyone access just because they’re familiar, charming, or broken. That version of you, the overly giving, overly trusting one, died in the fire. And what rose? Power. They never expected you to say no. They never imagined you’d cut off access. But the truth is, they were never drawn to you for love. They were drawn to your light, your kindness, your strength, your spirit. They needed what you carried, but they never respected it. And that spirit, that energy that seeks to drain and deceive, God is exposing it.

So keep your armor on. Stay wrapped in his presence. Let the enemy pass you by because there’s too much God in you now. You’re no longer an easy target. You’re a spiritual warrior. And baby, they’ll never make the same mistake again. This person was good, real good. They knew how to manipulate, how to charm, how to sweet talk their way into the hearts of women. For years, they got away with it. They had a pattern, a routine. They’d show up polished, persuasive, dripping in promises they never intended to keep. And for years, that spirit followed them through generations, through bloodlines, weaving its way through relationships in your family, like a quiet curse, until it met you.

Because when a true child of God steps onto the scene, everything changes. See, you didn’t always have the standards you have now. In the beginning, you were still learning, still healing, still finding your worth. You didn’t know what healthy boundaries looked like, let alone how to enforce them. You didn’t yet understand that the most sacred relationship you would ever have outside of God was the one you have with yourself. But through the trials, through the heartbreak, the betrayal, the wake up calls, you got wiser. You learned that no connection is worth sacrificing your peace.

No romance is worth forfeiting your purpose. And no charm, no game, no sweet nothings can stand up against the discernment God has now placed in you. Because now you know, you know what it feels like to lose yourself trying to love someone who doesn’t even love themselves. You know what it costs to silence your spirit, just to keep someone else comfortable. And you refuse to ever do that again. This spirit, the manipulative, narcissistic one that tried to blend in with affection and seduction, didn’t expect you. It didn’t expect someone who finally understood their value.

It didn’t expect someone who said, not this time. It didn’t expect someone with boundaries, with a prayer life, with self respect. And now that manipulator has met their match. Because when you stand in your authority, wrapped in God’s truth and rooted in love for yourself, the enemy can’t find a way in. You didn’t just protect your own heart, you interrupted a generational pattern. And now the curse is broken, and the cycle ends with you. The enemy has a strategy, and it’s not random. He looks for those with deep insecurities, people battling low self-worth, those still unsure of their voice or value.

That’s who he targets. Because when someone doesn’t know who they are in God, they’re easier to manipulate, easier to deceive, easier to drain. The devil can smell your wounds. He can sense your desperation. That’s why it must become your daily mission, your holy priority. To stay so wrapped in God, so spiritually covered, that when the enemy comes sniffing around, he has to walk past you. Because for a long time, maybe you were the one trying to be nice to everybody. You let people in too quickly, gave them full access to your spirit, trusted their potential instead of their patterns.

You thought that relationship was going somewhere real. You believed her words, you gave him your loyalty, you offered your peace in exchange for false promises. You gave chance after chance until one day, God woke you up. And ever since then, baby, you haven’t been the same. That’s the part the enemy didn’t expect. Because while he stays consistent in his schemes, you evolved. So now when the same old spirit came knocking again, wrapped in a different face, a new voice, maybe a slicker game, they met someone unrecognizable. They met a woman with boundaries.

They met a man who walks in strength. They met someone who values their solitude over settling. They met a soul that refuses to be manipulated, even if it means walking alone. You know now that the most sacred relationship outside of God is the one you have with yourself. When your mind is nourished, your spirit is protected, your body is honored, and your focus is locked in. Only good can come to you. Because you’ve matured enough to know what’s worth your attention, your time, and your heart. The devil wants control, but he can’t touch what’s covered.

He can’t manipulate what’s healed. He can’t invade what’s sealed in divine awareness. You’re not the same person he used to play with, and now he knows it too. They expected you to lay down and take it, to stay quiet, to shrink, to tolerate whatever treatment they decided to hand you. They assumed your silence was agreement, your kindness was weakness, and your patience was permission. They thought you were desperate enough to accept less than you deserved, but they were wrong. See, that’s what people assume about the ones who’ve been beaten down by life, about the ones who’ve reached a certain age and feel pressured to settle, about the ones who’ve carried rejection so long, they start to believe they aren’t worthy of anything better.

But baby, something shifted. You were renewed. God stepped in. He grabbed hold of you. He shook you awake from the inside out and whispered to your spirit, you don’t have to take this anymore. And ever since then, your whole posture has changed. You’re no longer afraid to say, keep it moving. I ain’t with it. That’s what redemption does. That’s what real healing does. It makes you bold, not bitter, clear, not cold. You don’t have to yell or prove anything. You just close the door and let your silence be the boundary. They don’t know what to do with this version of you.

The you that’s no longer accessible, the you that has requirements, the you that doesn’t answer when they call, because now you’ve shown them you cannot be mishandled anymore. You shocked them. You didn’t argue. You didn’t beg. You didn’t cry for them to change. You just shut the door and kept walking. And while that demon is still sitting there thinking you’ll break eventually, God is confirming daily that you’ve already risen. You’re not looking for someone to complete you. You’re walking in wholeness. God has shown you your value, that you’re worthy of people who love with integrity, that you’re worthy of prayers spoken behind your back, not gossip, that you are worth more than the weight of many sparrows, that your thoughts shape your reality.

And now your mind is filled with God’s truth. So don’t second guess yourself that closed door. It was your breakthrough. And you didn’t just walk away. You walked into everything you deserve. [tr:trw].