They’re trying to convince themselves and others that they are fine, but their hearts are not in it. Inside, they know they don’t love the new person, and they’re facing a lot of inner turmoil. They’re going through so much, but they won’t admit it to you or anyone else. Some have even married the wrong person, all in an attempt to show you or the world that they’ve moved on. They want to look good in your eyes, or prove that life goes on without you. But the reality is, their choices are not bringing them the peace or happiness they thought they would find.

They’re trapped in situations that don’t bring them joy because they were made from a place of pretending. They’re suffering, even if they won’t show it or speak about it. All their actions are just a cover-up for the pain they feel inside, for not being with you. Sometimes people end up with someone new out of frustration, desperation, or to impress others. They might rush into a relationship or marriage, not out of love, but to make you feel bad or worried. They try to show that they’ve moved on and found happiness, but it’s just a show.

They’ve forced themselves into situations where they don’t truly care for the person they’re with, and now they are facing the consequences of their choices. They are not happy. They are suffering and in pain. Their relationship or marriage isn’t something they enjoy. They are simply enduring it. They want to look good in your eyes, to prove to you and others that they have someone who loves them, but it’s all a facade. Living a fake life isn’t sustainable, and it catches up with them. So be true to yourself. Just because someone else is getting married doesn’t mean you should feel pressured to do the same.

Many people who rushed into these situations are enduring pain daily, pretending everything is fine. When they see you, they might even feel jealous, despite their efforts to seem happy. If you are single, don’t think it’s a mistake or that something is wrong with you. Take your time. Remember there are many things you can enjoy and do as a single person that married people may not have the freedom to do. Marriage is a serious commitment. It’s about sticking together through good and bad, wealth and poverty, health and sickness. So don’t rush, wait for the right person and the right moment.

Getting married can feel like a one-way journey, and even when people realize they’ve chosen the wrong partner, they often struggle to find happiness in their next relationship. If they divorce after five or ten years and remarry, they might face the same problems all over again. Even if they try again and again, the chances of finding lasting happiness can be slim. That’s why it’s so important not to rush into marriage. Take your time and don’t feel pressured by others. You can have a fulfilling and happy life as a single person. Don’t let anyone make you feel like you need to hurry into marriage just because of your age or what others think.

If you marry because of what your parents, siblings or friends are saying, you’re not making your own choice. You’re just following the opinions of others. When you make decisions based on what others want, you’re not being true to yourself. You’re letting go of your own will and emotions, giving in to what others expect from you. It’s like losing a part of your soul because you’re not honoring your own feelings and desires. Your soul is your emotions and your willpower and these should guide your decisions. So take your time and make choices that feel right for you, not because of pressure from society or others.

Society doesn’t always know what’s best for you. Many people who push you to get married are not happy in their own marriages. They are just enduring, not enjoying. They may want you to join them in their struggle, but you deserve to make your own decisions and find what truly makes you happy. Misery often seeks company, so take your time and really think about what you want. I’m not saying you shouldn’t get married. If it’s the right time for you and you’ve made your own decision, then go for it. If you’ve found a supportive partner who you believe will stand by you and help you in life and you feel ready, then marriage can be a beautiful thing.

But don’t rush into it just because you feel pressured. If you’re single right now, there’s no need to push yourself into marriage. You can live a fulfilling and happy life on your own, sometimes even better than those who are unhappily tied together. I’m being honest with you, many people end up in difficult situations because they rushed into marriage with the wrong person. There are cases where people end up at the police station or in psychiatric hospitals, all because of a bad marriage or rushing into a relationship without thinking it through. Sometimes, after a breakup, people don’t take the time to heal.

They jump into a new relationship just to prove a point to their ex or to show they are still desirable. But this rushed decision can lead to bigger problems later on. They might act like they don’t care about you or love you, but deep down, you’re still the one they truly care about. So don’t let the pressure get to you. Make sure you’re making choices that are right for you, not just reacting to what others think or expect. Your happiness and peace of mind are worth more than rushing into something just to keep up appearances or prove a point.

You are the one they truly care about, even if they’re with someone else now. The person they’re with isn’t right for them, but they’re staying in that relationship just to prove a point, to show that they could find someone else too. They think there are plenty of other people out there, or when one door closes, another one opens. But this is just an act, a way of pretending. Deep inside, they’re unhappy and struggling. They’re going through a tough time and wish they could leave, but they feel trapped. To them, it feels like a road with no way back.

They can’t just walk away because they fear the shame and the stigma it might bring. So they tell themselves to just endure it and keep going, even though it’s hard. Don’t be fooled by what you see on social media. Pictures and posts can make it look like they’re enjoying life, but that’s not the whole truth. They’re not as happy as they seem. So, as a chosen one, take your time and focus on being true to yourself. Remember, the right time will bring the right person into your life. It’s not about finding the right person to make everything perfect.

It’s about waiting for the right moment when things naturally fall into place. So keep working on yourself and be patient. Trust that when the time is right, the right person will come along. There’s no need to rush or compare yourself to others. Focus on your own goals and keep doing things that will help you achieve financial independence. When you have your own money, you can enjoy the freedom to travel, pay your bills, take yourself out, relax, and come back refreshed. You’ll also be able to support those in need, like orphans and others who are struggling.

These actions can bring you a real sense of fulfillment. You can live a happy, simple, and content life while being single. For some, being single is part of their journey, and that’s perfectly okay. Let those who want to get married go ahead, but don’t feel jealous or envious of them. It’s their path, not yours. Stay true to yourself, and don’t let others push or pressure you into something you’re not ready for. Listen to your heart, your intuition. It’s your inner guide, and it’s like God speaking to you. Trust what you feel inside. Your intuition knows the right way for you.

Sometimes, because of pressure from family, friends, or society, people stay in relationships even when they’re being hurt. They push through with marriage just to meet others’ expectations, and this can disturb your peace and happiness. But you’re still in it because you forced yourself into that situation, and now you feel like you have to endure it for the rest of your life. This is what causes many people to experience high blood pressure and deep depression. Many people in marriages are struggling with depression, and some are even having suicidal thoughts. It’s a serious issue, and that’s why marriage is not something to rush into.

You need to take your time and let God guide you. Allow the Holy Spirit to lead you on this path, and don’t jump into it without careful thought. Remember, some people are just pretending to be happy in their relationships. They’re living a fake life, and it’s not real. Don’t let their appearance disturb your peace of mind, or make you question your choices. Keep being true to yourself. Understand that they may be suffering, but they’re just putting on a show. So, take your time, follow your own journey, and don’t feel pressured by the outside world. Thanks for watching, and I’ll see you in my next video.

Take care, and remember, your peace matters most. [tr:trw].