In this video I’m going to shed some light on what could be going on behind the scenes. It might be difficult to hear but it’s important to understand the reality. I’m not here to bash your family but I want to help you see things clearly. Often our gut feelings are right even when we don’t want to believe them. If you’ve been wondering whether your family is truly on your side or if they might secretly resent you you’re probably onto something. The truth is some family members might be jealous of your success or feel threatened by your achievements.

They may not check in on you or they might distance themselves without any clear reason. This can be because they see you doing better than them and it makes them uncomfortable. You might be smarter, more successful or more charismatic and instead of supporting you they feel intimidated. It’s tough when the people who are supposed to lift you up don’t do so. You might find that strangers support you more than your own family because they see your value without any of the baggage of knowing your past. Your family might still see you as the person you were years ago, unable to accept that you’ve grown and changed.

This can lead to them treating you poorly or even sabotaging your success. If you’re struggling right now it could be because your family isn’t providing the support you need. They might have turned their backs on you leaving you to fend for yourself. It’s painful but recognizing this truth can help you take steps to protect yourself and seek out the support you deserve from others who truly appreciate you. You might find yourself having to take care of things on your own because unfortunately you can’t always rely on your family. It’s a tough reality but sometimes your own family might not support you the way they should.

You may notice that they’re not there for you or your kids. They don’t check in and they seem uninterested in what’s going on in your life. It’s as if they don’t care and that can hurt. The sad truth is that some of your family members might be talking behind your back saying negative things to bring you down. They see that you’re different, that you’re striving to better yourself and instead of supporting you they choose to gossip or criticize. This is one of the reasons why you might be struggling so much. It’s because you don’t have that solid support system from the people who should be rooting for you.

Even as you’ve been working hard to improve yourself no matter how successful you become some family members will still refuse to acknowledge your achievements. They might ignore the progress you’ve made acting like they don’t see it because they’re jealous. Instead of congratulating you they might talk about something completely unrelated to avoid giving you the recognition you deserve. It’s important to understand that a lot of this negativity stems from their own insecurities. Some family members might have given up on their own dreams and seeing you continue to push forward makes them uncomfortable. They might even spread rumors about you to others trying to turn the family against you.

It’s frustrating but it’s also a sign that you’re doing something right. Despite all this you’re still in the game still moving forward and that’s what really matters. Keep focusing on your own growth and don’t let their negativity bring you down. Remember your success is a testament to your strength and determination and no one can take that away from you. Have you ever noticed that your family seems to come together and then suddenly pull away? One moment you’re all close and the next they’re distant and you’re left wondering why you weren’t invited to gatherings or events.

The truth is they might not be including you because they don’t want you to know what’s going on. They’re keeping things from you and it’s all very intentional. Think back to when you were younger. Do you remember feeling like something was off in your family? Maybe you were picked on, bullied or made fun of for how you looked or acted. Perhaps someone in the family hurt you in ways that were deeply wrong. As you’ve grown older you might have realized that these weren’t just childish acts. They were signs of something deeper, something more sinister.

Some of your family members may not want you to remember these things because they don’t want the truth to come out. They might have even manipulated others to believe that you’re the problem. When in reality you’ve always had good intentions. This can be incredibly painful especially when they never acknowledge your accomplishments or successes. Instead they praise others while ignoring you, making you feel invisible. It’s not that they don’t see your success, they do, but they’re jealous. They don’t want to see you doing well so they talk behind your back spreading gossip to pull you down.

This is a form of competition like crabs in a bucket where they try to drag you down as soon as you start to rise. The sad truth is some of the people you once looked up to might be the very ones talking bad about you now. You might feel it in your gut that something isn’t right and that’s because your intuition is telling you the truth. Trust that feeling. If you sense that someone is talking about you behind your back they probably are. If you’re still watching this it’s because you know deep down that what you’ve been feeling is true.

Some of your family members are talking about you and it’s important to recognize this so you can protect yourself. Don’t ignore those gut feelings. They’re there to guide you and keep you aware of what’s really going on around you. You might notice that you don’t know much about what’s going on with some of your family members anymore. Maybe you don’t know how many kids they have, who they’re in a relationship with, or where they live. You might have been the one who used to reach out and make an effort to stay in touch but they never seem to do the same for you.

Why? Because they might be holding on to feelings of jealousy or resentment. Family dynamics can be tricky. Even when some family members seem to have it all. A stable relationship, a nice house, and a picture perfect life. They might still feel threatened by you. It doesn’t matter that they appear to have more material success. There’s something about you that bothers them. Maybe it’s because you’re single and happy while they’re stuck in an unhappy marriage. They could be jealous because you have something they don’t. Inner peace, confidence, or a connection with something greater. Despite their outward success, they still feel the need to compete with you, trying to prove they’re better.

This is why they flaunt their achievements, talk about their vacations, and boast about their possessions. They want to make you feel small because deep down, they know you’re the one who’s truly blessed. And here’s the thing, when you start to succeed, they might suddenly change their tune. They’ll act supportive, congratulating you, as if they were always in your corner. But the truth is, they’re only interested now because they see you rising, and they don’t want to be left behind. They might even reach out to you after years of silence, trying to reconnect, because they realize you’re doing well.

It’s sad, but it’s true. Sometimes your own family might want to see you fail. They might not support you like they should, and they might even secretly hope you don’t succeed. Strangers, on the other hand, often see your potential and are more willing to invest in you, buy from you, or support you. They don’t have the baggage of jealousy or competition that family members might have. Family members who talk behind your back and gossip about you are often the same ones who refuse to support your dreams or recognize your achievements. They might even put down your accomplishments because they can’t handle seeing you do better than them.

If this resonates with you, you’re not alone. Many people experience this, and it’s a tough reality to face. But here’s the good news, their negativity only fuels your motivation. God sees what you’re going through, and he’ll turn their actions into something that helps you grow stronger. In the end, their attempts to hold you back will only make you shine brighter. If this message hits home for you, share your thoughts in the comments. Let others know that you’re dealing with haters in your own family, and remember that you’re not alone in this.

Your success will speak for itself, and nothing they do can stop you from reaching your goals. [tr:trw].