Why? Because you’ve likely realized that in the past, some of the information you shared has been used against you. You might have trusted certain people, thinking that there was a level of respect between you. That the things you shared in confidence would stay private. Not because you expected some sacred bond, but at the very least, a sense of decency that what you said wouldn’t be misused. Maybe you didn’t even have to say it out loud, thinking it should have gone without saying that your private matters would remain private. But sometimes, when you shared your plans, whether it was about your goals, your travels, or your projects, people tried to get in the way.

They tried to stop you because they had access to the very details you had freely given them. Now you’re done with all that. You’re tired of talking, tired of giving people the information they don’t need or deserve to know. Your silence is making a lot of noise and people are noticing. It’s not like you to be so quiet, right? Many might be wondering what’s going on because they’re used to you speaking up. You’ve probably always been the kind of person who stands firm, speaks your mind, and advocates for what’s right. When something needs to be said, you’re not one to stay silent.

If push comes to shove, you’re the type to stand up and speak truthfully, no hesitation. But this isn’t about staying silent out of weakness or fear. No, it’s about having the strength to remain still, to withhold your words when the time calls for it. There’s power in not allowing too much information to slip through your lips, especially when certain people are all too eager to hear and misuse what you share. You’ve come to realize that some people around you don’t respect your words or appreciate what you have to say. These individuals are only interested in gathering your personal information, people who gossip, people prone to spreading rumors, and those who engage in smear campaigns.

We’ve learned to move cautiously around these types. We’ve learned that not everyone deserves to hear what’s going on in our lives because there’s no respect for privacy or trust. Some people will pretend to be your friend, pretending to be close because they want you to spill all the details. They act like your biggest supporter, your best confidant, just to get what they want, your personal information, and once they have it, they either spread it around to others or use it against you. They’ll twist your words, distort your intentions, and try to weaponize the very things you shared with them in confidence.

Unfortunately, some people move that way. They’re not genuinely there for you. They’re louder than words. Your silence is not just about withholding information, it’s about protecting your peace. When they get the information they want, it’s piping hot, ready to be spread to others. That’s not something we always anticipate, but now we know better. People have started to notice your silence. You’re no longer the person who makes a lot of noise by sharing everything. You’re not divulging all the details of your life like you once did. Instead, you’ve become more reserved and still, especially around certain people.

These days, when people ask questions, you might find yourself staying more tight-lipped. You’re not as eager to share. You don’t want to engage in revealing too much, especially with those who don’t deserve to know what’s going on in your life. Your silence has become loud in its own way. You’re no longer talking to certain people or confiding in them like before. Perhaps you’ve even distanced yourself from individuals you used to be very open with. You can probably relate to this. You’ve always considered yourself a talkative person, especially around people you trust or want to build connections with.

You love speaking your mind, sharing your thoughts, and letting your voice be heard. Sometimes, you talk so freely that words just roll off your tongue. That’s just part of who you are. But even with this aspect of your personality, you’ve had to learn to be still. You’ve had to train yourself to stop talking so much around certain people. In some cases, it may have felt like going cold turkey. You completely cut certain individuals off. They no longer have access to you or your life like they once did. With others, you’ve had to be more careful, setting strict boundaries about what you choose to share.

Not everyone deserves to know the details of your life, and you’ve learned to discern who you can trust versus who you need to stay guarded around. There are still people you feel open and free to talk to, but you’re much more selective now. Your silence speaks volumes, and it’s a powerful way to protect your peace. You’re tired of talking to certain people. You’ve come to realize that the connection is often one-sided, and it’s not genuine. Some of these people move like snakes, and you can’t afford to have that kind of energy in your life.

You know how it goes. They’ll eventually bite. Snakes don’t have good intentions. They slither into your life pretending to be friends, family, or trusted allies. They play coy, acting as if they’re there for you, but in reality they’re just waiting for the right moment to strike. You can’t welcome that kind of energy into your life anymore. But you also recognize that it’s not entirely their fault. You gave them the ammunition. You handed them the information, the details they were for, and they used it against you. That’s why you’re done talking. Your silence is making a lot of noise now.

It’s unusual, you know, for someone like you, who is naturally talkative and open, to suddenly stop sharing is a big shift. But it had to happen. The more you talked, the more it backfired on you. It was making you uncomfortable, even miserable, in your own life. You thought you were building genuine connections, trusting these people with personal details, or simply venting to someone you believed you could confide in. But you learned the hard way that many of these individuals cannot be trusted. They don’t have your best interests at heart. They’re just playing games.

Now you’re more selective. You’ve had to train yourself to stop talking to certain people about certain things. It’s not always easy, especially when, on the surface, they seem friendly or supportive. But often, those same individuals are the ones moving like snakes, waiting for the right moment to use your words against you. It took time, but you’ve learned to stay quiet, to hold back, and to protect yourself from those who don’t truly have your back. Sometimes, saying nothing is the loudest and most powerful response. Some people move in a way that feels shaky and sly, and it’s incredibly uncomfortable to try and live your best life around individuals like that.

It’s unsettling to be surrounded by people who behave in such a manipulative and deceitful manner. That’s just how it is sometimes. But now, your silence is speaking volumes, it’s noticeable, and it’s making an impact. People around you are starting to wonder. They’re hoping that maybe, just maybe, you’ll turn the volume back up a little and start talking again. They’re waiting for you to spill the details, to go back to telling them what they want to know. But you’re not budging. You’ve recognized the patterns. As humans, we learn from patterns, and every time you’ve shared information with certain people, something negative seems to follow.

Whether it’s betrayal, gossip, or things going wrong, the outcome is always the same. The pattern is clear. When you tell them too much, things take a turn for the worse. That’s why your silence is so loud right now. It’s making people uncomfortable, and they’re noticing the change in you. But you have your reasons for pulling back, and it’s not a bad thing. [tr:trw].